-Unless I know the other dog, I don't allow greetings on leash, period. So I wouldn't worry about whether its aggression or excitement, just get her to relax.
-Control Unleashed (book and now a DVD) is a GODSEND for all dogs, but reactive dogs in particular. The "look at that" exercise has been a lifesaver for Cassie and me both. (instead of forcing the dog to ignore the other dog/cat/person and focus their attention exclusively on you - a stressful and very difficult exercise - the "LAT" allows the dog to check out the stimulus, then return to you for a reward. (Simplified explanation, highly recommend you get or borrow the book
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-Control Unleashed (book and now a DVD) is a GODSEND for all dogs, but reactive dogs in particular. The "look at that" exercise has been a lifesaver for Cassie and me both. (instead of forcing the dog to ignore the other dog/cat/person and focus their attention exclusively on you - a stressful and very difficult exercise - the "LAT" allows the dog to check out the stimulus, then return to you for a reward. (Simplified explanation, highly recommend you get or borrow the book