I'm I just getting old and grumpy or what! O.k I know the answer Is it totally not expected that you send Thank yous for gifts received anymore? I'm talking gifts for weddings, showers, or any gift for that matter! I have been to 2 weddings and 2 showers, one wedding and one baby, in the last 6 months. Two were for my nephews, one was for a niece, one was for my nephews soon to be wife - the bridal shower before the wedding. None not one Thank you card- maybe its just DH's family We have the wedding coming up this weekend, I would never not give a gift, but it really leaves a bad taste. Maybe I'm just weird this way and am expecting to much. I would never not acknowledge a gift that someone gave me- your feelings?