in AUGUST of 2011. His sister emailed me and said they want to plan a 13th birthday surprise for her daughter for a trip to Disney when she turns 13. They want all of us to go... His parents, us, SIL and family in Nashville and the 5 of them. That would be 13 total. Everyone is up for it but us. I have NO interest in going to Florida in August, let alone spending a week with SU's family on vacation. The week at his parents for 4th of July is plenty for me. SU doesn't want to go with all of them either. I can hear the bitching already about who isn't doing what at the right time. No thank you.