I have a question that I want an unbiased answer to so I thought I would ask here...
My B/F and I just broke up...basically, he has treated me like crap for weeks and abandoned me when I was going though some major personal problems...to add insult to injury, while I was going though my personal things the reason he wasn't there for me is because some girl he went on a couple of dates with in high school got left by her husband and my B/F apparantly was the best shoulder to cry on...long story short, things between us DID NOT end well...
Here is the question...he has kids that I spent a great deal of time with and was very attached to and they were/are very attached to me...apparantly one of his kids (she is 8) is not taking the break up well and he thinks that I should continue a relationship with his kids even though he and I aren't dating...
My thought... I want a clean break...if we aren't going to be together, have no chance of getting back together, I want to move on with my life...(this is selfish of me, but one of the reasons I don't want to continue a relationship with his kids is because I don't want to know if he has a new girlfriend and I am sure at the point that he does, I will get bumped out of the picture...at least now, it is because I want out, not because I am being abandoned...which is basically what HE just did to me)
Thoughts??
My B/F and I just broke up...basically, he has treated me like crap for weeks and abandoned me when I was going though some major personal problems...to add insult to injury, while I was going though my personal things the reason he wasn't there for me is because some girl he went on a couple of dates with in high school got left by her husband and my B/F apparantly was the best shoulder to cry on...long story short, things between us DID NOT end well...
Here is the question...he has kids that I spent a great deal of time with and was very attached to and they were/are very attached to me...apparantly one of his kids (she is 8) is not taking the break up well and he thinks that I should continue a relationship with his kids even though he and I aren't dating...
My thought... I want a clean break...if we aren't going to be together, have no chance of getting back together, I want to move on with my life...(this is selfish of me, but one of the reasons I don't want to continue a relationship with his kids is because I don't want to know if he has a new girlfriend and I am sure at the point that he does, I will get bumped out of the picture...at least now, it is because I want out, not because I am being abandoned...which is basically what HE just did to me)
Thoughts??