I need opinions I'm not one to usually ask this, but this is driving me crazy. I went out with an old friend. We have been friends since we were 14. I hung out with him in High School. When i was in the Air Force we always got together for dinner, or did something together no matter who we were dating. I lost touch with him for 4-5 years. Partly because I had heard through his mom he was engaged. I did not want to rock the boat and left it alone. Fast forward to the present. I saw him on facebook. He never got married the relationship ended. He joked you should have called me sooner it would have saved me a few years. We went out had a great time, he kissed me, which shocked me but i like the idea. He also joked why have we not done this sooner we could have been doing this for years. Then for about 2 weeks after we exchanged txt messages. I told him to call me he did immediately. He works in finance and his world is stressful right now. It was made worse by the SEC entering his job to do an audit. He said he is wondering if the job was even worth it and that he would call me in a few days. I have not heard from in 2 weeks. If this was another guy I would say jerk and move on. He has never done this before why would he do it now? Should i try to call him again and tell him if he's stressed Im here to listen. If he has decided to avoid me because he does not want a relationship tell me that too. We have been friends a long time no harm no foul. Then i was thinking maybe an e-mail would be better as to not ut him on the spot. Or option # 3 just leave it alone. Ok any advise here would be great even if its to tell me to worry about something else!