I'm not a mortgage lender, but I do work in banking and have a general knowledge of mortgages.
I have to say, Holey Moley!!! $13,000 in closing costs?? You have got to be kidding me. That is usury! Around here closing costs are $995 to $1300. Are you sure you didn't put an extra zero on there?
How many years do you currently have left on your mortgage? What would the payment difference be if you refinanced for the same term that you have left now?
As far as reverse mortgages go, they can be great if you aren't concerned with leaving your house to your heirs. You are basically selling your house back to the bank. They pay you and build their equity in your house--up to a predetermined point. They used to be bad news, but are now a pretty good deal--if they are right for your circumstances. You have to go through counseling before you can get a reverse mortgage. Here is a link that talks about reverse mortgages.
http://www.aarp.org/money/revmort/
Edited to add the HUD link.
http://www.hud.gov/offices/hsg/sfh/hecm/rmtopten.cfm
I have to say, Holey Moley!!! $13,000 in closing costs?? You have got to be kidding me. That is usury! Around here closing costs are $995 to $1300. Are you sure you didn't put an extra zero on there?
How many years do you currently have left on your mortgage? What would the payment difference be if you refinanced for the same term that you have left now?
As far as reverse mortgages go, they can be great if you aren't concerned with leaving your house to your heirs. You are basically selling your house back to the bank. They pay you and build their equity in your house--up to a predetermined point. They used to be bad news, but are now a pretty good deal--if they are right for your circumstances. You have to go through counseling before you can get a reverse mortgage. Here is a link that talks about reverse mortgages.
http://www.aarp.org/money/revmort/
Edited to add the HUD link.
http://www.hud.gov/offices/hsg/sfh/hecm/rmtopten.cfm