Its been along time for me, but I remember starting my kids out with finger food, fruits, cheerios, small pieces of chicken, cooked veggies etc. I always remember the Doctor saying "they wont starve themselves" so guess I would put the food out and let it set there, when enough time has passed pick up the tray,and no treats in between meals. Next meal you would probably get a different outcome- so in a funny way I think Cam had the right idea. Now there is a difference in "he can't feed himself" and "he wont feed himself" Don't worry to much, I'm sure he will be feeding himself before he goes to school