[JollyMolly]

It's ok if you are "a mess". It shows you care and he is loved. Think about all the kids in this world who secretly wish they had a parent who cared enough to "embarrass them by showing a little emotion".!

EXACTLY!!!!!!

My parents were on an Alaskan cruise when I graduated HS. It was the only time they could get the reservation they wanted at a certain price. Story of my childhood... I tell ya.

So go ahead and be a huge gigantic mess. Its an important event!