Okay. First, I realize that I am the only one who can contol what I put in my mouth. I am the one who chooses to eat the wrong foods, I am the one who causes my weight problems. Today though some of my Wieght Watchers buddies and I were talking about our weight loss journeys and I decided to vent a little about something that has been bothering me. My grandmother, whom I love so very much, has a habit that frustrates me. She buys candies and cookies and treats and hides them in cookie jars and cabinets, and then tells me where she keeps them so that I can go get some. I have asked her not to tell me about them, but she continues to do so any way. Now, I know, I choose to eat the things, that is my problem. But, it is an emotional thing, it would feel so good to know that she is supporting my weight loss journey by just not telling me where the goodies are. I was trying to tell my WW buddies about this and one of them went off a little bit when I started talking telling me "Don't even go there, you know this is all you fault, don't try to brush your obesity off on you grandma" But that isn't what I was trying to do. Does anyone get this? I know I am the one choosing to eat it, but if you know a person is trying to loose weight why tell them where the bad food is? Why not support them and keep the locations of your goodies to yourself? It hurt my feelings a little, being jumped at like this. I am being overly sensitive, I know, but I just wondered if anyone else would feel this way about this?