Cinders is very special, and I know how much you and Blair love her...gee I've seen it with my own eyes, many times. She has thrived because of that love from the both of you. I think she looks dang good, despite everything she has been through. That says a lot for the care and love you give her. And the thing about her head...don't let that get to you...it is what is in the heart that counts. They say to be loved you have to be able to love, so that says a lot about Cinder. Sending you hugs too!